Har walidain ki khwahish hoti hai ke un ka bacha taleem ya kamyabi ke saath saath achhay ikhlaq aur tameez ka bhi malik ho. Aksar log samajhte hain ke tameez sirf "Assalam-o-Alaikum", "Please" aur "Thank You" kehne ka naam hai, lekin asal tameez is se kaafi zyada gehri cheez hai. Tameez ka matlab hai dusron ka ehtiram karna, apni baat shistagi se kehna, apne jazbat ko munasib tareeqay se zahir karna aur zimmedari ka ehsaas rakhna.
Bachon Ko Tameez Daar Banana Zaroori Kyun Hai?
Tameez sirf ghar ke liye nahi, balki puri zindagi ke liye ek bunyadi skill hai. Jo bacha choti umar se dusron ka ehtiram karna seekh leta hai, us ke liye school, dosti, rishtay aur mustaqbil ki job mein kamyab hona aasaan ho jata hai. Log aksar ilm se pehle ikhlaq ko yaad rakhte hain. Tameez bachon mein:- Self-control paida karti hai.
- Behtar communication sikhati hai.
- Larna jhagarna kam karti hai.
- Rishton ko mazboot banati hai.
- Leadership ki bunyaad rakhti hai.
- Society mein izzat dilati hai.
Bachay Tameez Seekhtay Kahan Se Hain?
Sab se pehli school ghar hota hai aur sab se pehle teachers walidain. Agar walidain ek dusray se izzat se baat karte hain, ghalti par maafi mangte hain, ghar ke madadgaaron ka ehtiram karte hain aur gusse mein bhi alfaaz ka khayal rakhte hain, to bachay bhi wahi rawayya apna lete hain. Bachay zyada sunte kam aur dekhte zyada hain.Sirf Daantna Kafi Nahi
Kai walidain samajhte hain ke zor se daantna ya saza dena bachay ko tameez sikha dega. Haqeeqat mein dar ki wajah se bacha kuch dair ke liye chup ho sakta hai, lekin asal tameez us waqt paida hoti hai jab bacha samajhta hai ke us ke rawayye ka dusron par kya asar padta hai. Misal ke taur par agar bacha kisi ki baat kaat deta hai to sirf "Aisa mat karo" kehne ke bajaye usay pyar se bataya ja sakta hai ke jab hum kisi ki baat kaat dete hain to samne wale ko lagta hai ke us ki baat ki ahmiyat nahi.Tameez Sikhane Ke Behtareen Tareeqay
Khud Misal Baniye
Agar aap "Please", "Shukriya" aur "Maaf kijiye" istemal karte hain to bacha bhi naturally ye alfaaz seekhega.Respect Dijiye
Jis bache se izzat se baat ki jati hai, woh bhi dusron ki izzat karna seekhta hai.Public Mein Zaleel Na Karein
Agar bacha ghalti kare to sab ke samne sharminda karne ke bajaye baad mein akele pyar se samjhayen.Positive Behaviour Ki Tareef Karein
Jab bacha kisi ki madad kare, sharing kare ya tameez se baat kare to us ki tareef zaroor karein.Ghar Ke Chhote Rules Banayen
Jaise:- Salam karna.
- Kisi ki baat mukammal sunna.
- Khana mil kar khana.
- Ghar ke buzurgon ka ehtiram.
- Apni cheez khud uthana.
- Ghalti par maafi mangna.
Emotional Vocabulary Sikhayen
Bachay ko sirf "Rona band karo" kehne ke bajaye usay apne jazbat pehchanne aur bayan karne mein madad dein. Misal:- Mujhe gussa aa raha hai.
- Mujhe bura laga.
- Main udaas hoon.
- Mujhe madad chahiye.